Fearless Self-Healing!

Is there such thing as fearless?

Perhaps all of us have a different definition of it means to be fearless. But there are many girls who believe that fearless means to be strong willed and have a heart of gold. In the urban dictionary, a girl said: "Fearless means to be strong willed. Heart of gold... Beautiful inside and out. Able to push through the storms of a shattered heart, broken spirit and tattered body emerging twice as graceful and independent than before. A truly gifted woman with a gorgeous soul and dreamers disease." ~Keltie Colleen

 Fearless is not the absence of fear. It’s not being completely unafraid. Fearless is having fears. Fearless is having doubts. Lots of them. Fearless is living in spite of those things that scare you to death. Fearless is falling madly in love again, even though you’ve been hurt before. Fearless is walking into your freshmen year of high school at fifteen. Fearless is getting back up and fighting for what you want over and over again… even though every time you’ve tried before, you’ve lost. It’s fearless to have faith that someday things will change. Fearless is having the courage to say goodbye to someone who only hurts you, even if you can’t breathe without them. It’s fearless to fall for your best friend, even though he’s in love with someone else. And when someone apologizes to you enough times for things they’ll never stop doing, it’s fearless to stop believing them. It’s fearless to say “you’re NOT sorry”, and walk away. Loving someone despite what people think is fearless. Allowing yourself to cry on the bathroom floor is fearless. Letting go is fearless. Then, moving on and being alright…that’s fearless too. But no matter what love throws at you, you have to believe in it. You have to believe in love stories and Prince Charming's and happily ever after. Love is FEARLESS.

Taylor Swift's Fearless CD 

Just when I started to feel the sharp edges of rock bottom one girl came to mind and I had to say to myself: I will be okay because I am Fearless